Monday, 6 March 2017

Pleasures of knowledge

Catfish exposed.⧬⧭
 
 Approximately 5 in 10 women and men online looking for love. Why you ask? Believe it or not i for one have considered online dating due to loneliness or just having fun. It's that internal voice that says "I need love" turns out to be louder than the voice that says "be cautious". Based on that, we tend to consider dating online as the right thing to do . What most of us do not consider is, what if the person we are chatting to is not what they say they are. What if you just got catfished. What is a catfish you ask. Catfishing  is a new digital sport that’s taking place online, or vacating on the lake, or perhaps its gills and hooks. False, a catfish is someone who pretends to be what they are not using social media or any dating sites in the hopes of finding love, rather a romantic relationship.
How to Catch a fish.
Catfishers have a very clever way of fooling someone, that includes fake profiles. It"s so funny how someone would go as far as to find perfect pictures for their profile, hunny i think that is so much work and waste of data. You can identify a catfisher by how they constantly refuse to Skype but prefer talking over the phone . The pictures they post are inconsistent, whenever you ask to meet, they come up with endless excuses like, how they work endless hours and the victim always believes what the catfisher says. Catfishers tend to want sympathy, by giving details about their childhood traumas that contributed to their current relational issues. And as a victim you become a sucker for their vulnerability as maybe you have had similar issues, come on we all have issues. Some catfishers aren't even apologetic about the emotional trauma they cause. 
Tips to avoid being catfished.

Utilize video talk benefit.

  • Ensure you can see their face. A few tricksters will talk you via telephone on the off chance that you can't see their face.  It's substantially harder to recognize somebody by their voice than by what they look like. 


Confide in your gut.
 
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